Prism Wellness
A question we often ask new clients when we meet them for the first time is “What brings you to therapy now?” It is not uncommon for the response to begin with “Well, I’ve been thinking about this for a while…” Choosing to engage with therapy can be a daunting decision. How do you find therapist who is a good match? How will you know if you are making progress? You’ve already tried everything—why would just talking about it help? These are big questions that sometimes deter us from trying to find a therapist—especially if we feel stressed out by life already. Below are some answers to help you identify the next steps that are right for you.
Sometimes people are unsure where to start. During the first appointment, your therapist will get to know you by asking different questions about your past, current life, brief medical history, and what your hopes for change may be. Because we specialize in trauma, some topics that may be difficult to talk about with a stranger may come up in your first appointment. No therapist will pressure you to discuss any details, we fully trust your desire for growth and will not force you to explore any topics that you do not feel ready to talk about. After the first appointment, your therapist will work with you to identify your goals for therapy. Your therapist may also use a worksheet, like this one, to identify areas that you may choose to focus on first. There is absolutely no pressure to come into the session knowing exactly what you want.
STYLE: Some people prefer a gentle approach, while others prefer a healthy confrontational style. Do you prefer a more laid-back energy, or are you comfortable with formal interactions? Is it important to you to know a few personal details about your therapist or do you prefer for your therapist to be a blank slate? It is the job of the therapist to use approaches in a therapeutic manner, though individual style is important to know and understand. You can share your preference during a consultation or when meeting with a therapist and see where the therapist lands.
SPECIALTY: Is the therapist trained in the area that you’re wanting support in? Asking the therapist a few questions about their background and areas of specialty are great ways to build rapport and increase trust in the therapeutic process. Sometimes, throughout processing, areas of need will arise that were not identified in the first few sessions. This is completely ok! You and your therapist will work together to identify if it is something that can be addressed together or if a referral to a more specialized therapist would be better.
SYNERGY: Simply put, do you feel comfortable collaborating with your therapist? Do you find yourself feeling safe exploring topics that would normally bring you feelings of shame? The therapeutic bond is very unique, and it is imperative to feel a sense of connection with your therapist in order to progress. If you don’t feel a connection with your therapist, that is completely ok! Your therapist will not be hurt if you feel your needs are better served with another professional. We trust that you know yourself better than we ever will and will honor your ability to advocate for yourself.
In the beginning sessions, your therapist will work with you to create a document called a “treatment plan.” A treatment plan is a living document, meaning it is always available to be updated or changed. The purpose of a treatment plan is to assist us in tracking progress as well as keep us on track to address the needs that brought you into therapy in the first place. Often life can get stressful, and sessions turn into simply “venting” instead finding identifiable steps to help reduce stress or increase coping strategies. While venting is completely okay at times, you may not see or feel progress if the venting doesn’t lead to some productivity. If you ever feel you’re not making progress- bring it up in session with your therapist!
Think of all of the therapists you’ve seen in movies, TV shows, or read about in books. THERAPY. IS. NOT. THAT.
Therapy is not simply “just talking.” Therapy can also help you confront areas of your life that you may think are “fine,” when in fact they are causing you distress. Therapists pull from various modalities to help you get to better understand yourself, your patterns, and your choices. These modalities are evidenced-based approaches that are proven to help people identify their own strengths and use them to make changes within their lives. While change may take some time to occur, regular therapy appointments can assist clients in maintaining the motivation to change and to pour into areas of their own lives that they have full control of.
Prism Wellness is able to accept Aetna and MOST BCBS plans, including the State and Federal health plans as well as plans provided through most workplaces. Plans which include the UNC and Duke Health Alliance or plans purchased through Healthcare.gov are not accepted. If you are out of network, we are happy to provide a Superbill which can be submitted to your insurance company (so your sessions can go toward your Out of Network benefits). Payments are collected through our online secure portal.
The first session will include you getting to know your therapist and your therapist getting to know you! Want to take the lead? Go for it. Not sure where to start? No problem at all. Your therapist will want to get to know more about what brings you in to therapy and what you'd like to get out of your sessions.
Please make sure you have a strong internet connection. Having headphones handy will also help in the event there is an echo. Lastly, please be in a space where you are able to have privacy-- this time is for you and you only!
Each client is welcome to discuss the option of meeting face to face with their therapist! Prism Wellness has a spacious office with floor to ceiling windows to allow for plenty of natural light in Cary, however we also have the capability to meet via a HIPAA secure platform for telehealth. Our telehealth software allows therapists and clients to screen share as well as draw/type on a whiteboard to promote collaboration.
Prism Wellness is in network with BCBS (not BlueLocal or UNC plans), Aetna, and fully licensed clinicians are in network with Tricare. Our billing specialists will assist in verifying your insurance prior to your appointment. If you are out of network or uninsured, our self-pay rates are as follows: Intake Assessment (Initial Appointment): $180, Follow-Up Sessions: $155.
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Available via telehealth or in person at our office in Cary.
1140 Kildaire Farm Rd. Suite 307 Cary, NC 27511